This is very important. Make sure you brush your teeth before
out on your date. There is nothing worse than kissing someone
with bad breath. If your date consists of having something to
eat before the actual kiss, make sure you have a mint on hand to
take right after you finish eating. Don't take the mint just
before the kiss or chew on gum. You don't want to have something
in your mouth when you kiss.
You want your lips to be slightly moist when you kiss. Run your
tongue over your lips once before you kiss. Don't wear lip gloss
because that tends to make the kiss too gooey. And don't wear a
lot of lipstick unless you want your partner to wear it too
after the kiss. Slightly moist lips makes it easier to move your
lips over your partner's and gives both you and your partner a
more pleasant experience.
Stand close to your partner. As the two of you move closer
together tilt your head slightly to one side. If you don't,
don't worry about it. Your partner will still tilt their head
slightly so your lips meet on a slight angle or they will kiss
you straight on. If you can see which way your partner's head is
tilting, tilt your head slightly in the opposite direction.
Just before your lips meet, close your eyes. Some people prefer
to leave their eyes open during the kiss. But until you know
what your partner prefers, it is best to close your eyes.
Kissing with your eyes open, looking into one another's eyes
while you kiss, can be very erotic and some people find it quite
enjoyable. You may want to try kissing this way once you're more
comfortable kissing your partner .
Open your mouth slightly and place your lips over your partner's
lips. Do not hold your breath! Breath through your nose. As your
lips meet, press them gently over your partner's. You may wish
to move your lips in a slow, circular motion or just leave them
still over your partners.
This is like the type of kiss you'd give your grandma or aunt.
Instead of opening your mouth when your lips meet, keep them
closed. This is also a good way of letting your partner know
this is as far as it goes. It also makes a great hello/good-bye
kiss or a great first time kiss if you're nervous.
There are many ways you can use your hands during a kiss. The
most popular way is to put one hand on your partner's waist and
the other one against the middle of their back. Other ways to
use your hands are to cup your partner's face in your hands
(very romantic!), put them around your partner's neck, put them
around their waist, hold your partner's upper or lower arms
gently, run your finger's through their hair, or just hold their
hands in yours.
Different Kissing Style
"When the heads of two lovers are bent toward each other, and
when so bent, kissing takes place."
The Pressed Kiss
We couldn't find a good example for this one. Supposedly, one
lover is supposed to press the lower lip of the other with great
force. This can be done by grasping your lovers lower lip with
your finger just before you kiss.
The Straight Kiss
When the lips of two lovers are brought directly to each other,
this is called a straight kiss.
When either the man or woman "takes both the lips of the
other between his or her own, it is called the clasping
The Kamasutra goes on to say, "A woman only takes this kind
of kiss from a man with no mustache."
If, during the practice of this kiss one of them touches the
teeth, the tongue, and the palate of the other with his or her
tongue, it is called the fighting of the tongue.
The kiss that kindles love
This is a kiss that the woman can use to wake her partner when she
wants to make love. "When a woman looks at the face of her
lover while he is asleep and kisses it to show her intention or
desire it is called the kiss that kindles love."
The kiss that turns away
When one lover kisses the other while that lover is engaged in
business or while he is looking at something else so that his or
her mind may be turned away it is called the Kiss The Turns Away.
The kiss that awakens
When a lover coming home late at night kisses his beloved, who is
asleep on her bed in order to show her his desire it is called a
kiss that awakens. On such an occasion the woman may pretend to be
asleep at the time of her lover's arrival so that she may know his
intention and obtain respect from him.
Open your lips "slightly" more than you would during a
regular kiss. This makes it easier to place your tongue in your
Place the tip of your tongue on the tip of your partner's tongue.
Do not force your tongue too far into their mouth. If you wish,
you can play with their tongue by circling theirs with your own,
running the tip of your tongue along theirs, darting your tongue
in and out of their mouth teasingly, or running the tip of your
tongue along their teeth or roof of their mouth. If all else fails
and you're still unsure of what to do, just use your tongue the
way your partner uses theirs. Have fun with it! Explore!
This can be a very seductive type of kiss. Instead of French
Kissing with your mouth open, while your partner's lips are parted
suck on their top our bottom lip with your own, just for a second
or two. Then go back to another type of kiss or try the other lip.
This type of kiss has to be done carefully, but when done
correctly can create a wonderful effect on your partner. While
suck kissing, gently bite their lip, but be very gentle so as
not to hurt your partner. This kiss should only be done with
someone that you've kissed a few times before, otherwise you may
shock your partner.
This type of kiss is done when your partner is lying down on a
sofa or the ground, either asleep or just lying with their eyes
closed. Quietly approach your partner and place a small, very
gentle kiss on their lips. Intensify the kiss until your partner
opens their eyes or awakens.
This is a playful kiss. While in an open-mouthed kiss, suck in
deeply so you're sucking the air from your partner.
Take a sip of your favorite drink, either alcohol or something
sweet, and then when your lips meet pour the drink in your
partner's mouth. Only take a very small sip.
Put your eye really close to your partner's cheek and flutter your
lashes upon their skin. You can also do this on their lips.
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