Shivering of hands is the first symptom that
shows that the woman has reached the height of excitement. At this
stage, she shows deep love and doesn't allow her partner to
withdraw even when the male has ejaculated. All males must be
watchful of this symptom and see that they do not begin the
intercourse first. They must wait for the moment when their female
partner has achieved proper lubrication of her genitals and has
acquired an open posture by leaving her body loose. There are
certain manual ways to reach a woman to the height of excitement.
Fondling of female genitalia with skillful use of fingers is the
most certain way. Many males use artificial look alike to excite
their partner. Some males force their partner to have oral sex.
But scriptures strictly forbid such kind of practice. They say
that during intercourse, mouth of a woman is extremely holy thing.
Hence, it should not be defiled by oral sex.
Beginning and end of intercourse:
Intercourse is highly sensitive thing to be enjoyed in total
isolation. That is why, much significance is associated with the
nuptial night and nuptial chamber. Ambience of nuptial chamber is
decorated in such a way that it reflects the very mood of the
occupants. It has a well-made bedstead having soft cushions,
decorated with scented flowers. Air of the room is also perfumed
with incense sticks. The woman is given a bath prior to sending
into the room. Her body is anointed with scented oils. At some
places, the woman is given mild intoxicating drink.
The male partner makes more or less similar preparations. Upon
entering the room, he should occupy a place at the right hand side
of the female. He should begin with stroking the hair of the bride
while talking gently to her. Then he should caress her hands and
hold them. At this stage, both of them may enjoy a mild
intoxicating drink to do away with their shyness. The male must
slowly reach his hands under the clothes of his partner and grope
for the fastener. All other things like embracing, kissing,
fondling, undressing and finally intercourse follow usually.
After the intercourse is over, the partners should not part with
each other immediately. They must feel their presence within each
other for some more time. This practice helps to attain proper
intimacy between the partners. Even after separation, the partners
must sit together, talk lovingly and take delicious but nutritious
food and drink.
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